Introduction....

The purpose of this blog is to share what I have learned while being first a daughter of God, wife, mother, and homekeeper...in that order!

God my father is number one in my life.
My husband comes second and our children follow after him.
My home is next and everything else falls in behind that.

Finding your life in his is all about being a helpmeet to your husband. Ways that you as a wife can better help your husband and be what he NEEDS you to be not what you WANT to be. Living a sacrificial life to HELP HIM.

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. Genesis 2:18


A B C's of Being a Help Meet

Admit when you are wrong
Be positive
Cuddle
Do it his way
Encourage him
Fix his breakfast
Give back rubs
Hug often
"I love you" should be said many times daily
Joke around in a playful manner
Know his needs
Listen to him
Manage your home well
Never hold grudges
Open your eyes in the morning and smile
Pray for him
Quit nagging him
Reminisce about good times
Show respect and honor
Trust, and earn his trust
Understand his need for reverence
Vulnerability is a feminine trait; cultivate it
Wink at him!
X is for private times
Yearn to please him
Zealously guard him with your love
From http://www.frugalhomemaker.com/